There are innumerable personal finance blogs, books, podcasts, and other resources out there that provide advice on how to improve your financial situation.
There also exists a myriad of resources that offer self-help and self-improvement advice – how to become a better communicator, how to find purpose and master a craft, how to understand the power of habits and the importance of discipline.
I draw wisdom on how to live a better life from both of these sources.
But there exists a disconnect between the personal finance community and the self-improvement community that should not be there:
Personal finance aficionados fail to mention the importance of finding your purpose, while self-improvement gurus fail to mention the role that finances play in pursuing your purpose.
To Run From Or To Run Towards?
Most personal finance resources – whether it’s a blog, book, podcast – provide a multitude of ways you can save money, earn money, and invest more efficiently. But rarely do they explain why it’s important to conquer your finances.
The common undisputed attitude in the personal finance community is: accumulate as much money as possible so you can say no to the bullshit that life throws your way. Become rich so you no longer have to go to a job you hate 5 days per week for 40 years. This is all well and good, but the one drawback to this approach is that we are constantly running away from a life we hate towards a life…we don’t hate.
Shouldn’t we be running towards a life we love?
Shouldn’t we be seeking to create a life that makes us excited to hop out of bed in the morning instead of just a life that lets us lay in bed because we no longer have to report to a job we hate?
Wealth Without Meaning
I will never forget a quote from the book “How to Get Rich” by Felix Dennis, an entrepreneur whose net worth was estimated to be between $400-900 million before his death.
He spent the entire book explaining how he accumulated his wealth and offered viable strategies on how one can amass wealth. The book was packed with sound financial advice…but in the final chapter there was a paragraph that left me stunned:
“I have been very poor and I am now very rich. I am an optimist by nature. And I have the ability to write poetry and create the forest I am busy planting. Am I happy? No. Or, at least, only occasionally, when I am walking in the woods alone, or deeply ensconced in composing a difficult piece of verse, or sitting quietly with old friends over a bottle of wine. Or feeding a stray cat… I could do all those things without wealth.”
One of the wealthiest self-made men in the history of the UK could not find happiness amidst all the wealth surrounding him. The moments in life where he says he actually experiences happiness are exactly what I attempt to emphasize in depth through this blog:
Happiness and meaning are a result of producing meaningful work, impacting the world in some way, and connecting with other human beings.
Don’t Forget About Purpose
The grand focus of the personal finance community is primarily on two broad stages:
Stage 1: You have a full time job. You have bills to pay. You should accumulate as much money as possible to quit this job and be free.
Stage 2: You have reached financial independence. This is it. This is the pinnacle. Life is good forever now. Congrats, you made it.
But there is a third stage and I would argue it is the most important:
Stage 3: Now that you have freedom over your time, find your purpose. Find out how you can make an impact on others. Pursue this purpose relentlessly until you become so good at it you can produce something meaningful to give to the world. Master this purpose, this craft, this art.
I have listened to countless podcasts with people who have achieved early retirement or financial independence and nearly all of them preach the same message – run towards something, not from something. Shoot for F.I. so you can pursue something you love full time instead of simply aiming to quit your job.
Therein lies the crucial knowledge gap in the personal finance community: We forget about purpose. We easily forget that financial independence is not the end goal in itself, but rather it is a tool to gain freedom to do what we love each day.
To be clear, I do think it is wildly important to understand the principles of saving, earning, and investing. But to acquire wealth without purpose is like shooting an arrow towards a vague, unspecified target. We need purpose to make the wealth accumulation meaningful.
Don’t Forget About Finance
Just as the personal finance community is prone to neglecting the importance of purpose, the self-help community is prone to forgetting the role personal finance plays in the pursuit of goals, dreams, and a quest for a better life.
Most self-help books focus on overcoming obstacles, developing positive habits, and figuring out how to find what you love. All these things are great. But they often fail to mention the fact that it is overwhelmingly difficult to improve the state of your life if you’re in a constant financial struggle.
A new college grad burdened with exorbitant amounts of debt needs to know what a 401(k) is, how to keep an eye on their monthly spending, why they need a freedom fund, and how to create side hustle income before they begin to think about the psychology of happiness.
The point is, a lack of financial knowledge won’t always prevent you from achieving your goals, but it will make the road to your goals much harder. No matter what you aim to accomplish in life or who you aim to become, there is no denying the fact that bills are bills are bills and they must be paid. Likewise, debt isn’t going away until you develop and implement a strategy to pay it off.
Finding and pursuing your unique purpose is hugely important. Developing an understanding of personal finance will allow you to keep financial struggles at bay so you can pursue this purpose more effectively.
To anyone that says “Life isn’t about money, it’s about making memories”, I am in complete agreement with you. But knowing how money and finances work gives you freedom to make more memories!
A Beautiful Symbiotic Relationship
Placing an importance on discovering your purpose as well as understanding the world of finance is a potent formula you can use to create an amazing life. It’s wonderful to always strive to become a better person and it’s equally wonderful to seek to conquer your finances. But when you decide to do both, you become unstoppable.
Purpose and finance have a beautiful symbiotic relationship. They mutually increase the benefits of each other. Gaining complete control of your financial situation lets you pursue your purpose to your full ability. Finding your purpose forces you to focus on intentional living, which shortens the path to financial independence. These two forces feed each other, creating a constant cycle of growth and improvement.
Understand personal finance to pursue your purpose. Understand your purpose to conquer your finances. Work towards placing importance on both purpose and finance to create an incredible life.
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